Society trains us to want to be perfect. And in many endeavors, that’s something worth striving for.
Surgeons, for example, can put you at ease when they tell you they’ve performed this operation hundreds of times without any problems (WHEW!). Students with perfect grades get academic scholarships, saving boatloads of tuition money. And the list of examples of the benefits of perfection goes on and on.
From our appearance to our performance, someone else will always be a little better, and it causes us to try to perfect whatever it is we’re doing. Unfortunately, it carries over into our trading – much to our detriment.
You see, when it comes to trading, there’s NO ROOM on the perfection list. And that’s a good thing, because perfection is NOT required for success in trading.
Did you get that? Perfection isn’t necessary to succeed in trading! When I realized that, it was a huge relief to me.
In fact, the very WORST traders try to be perfect. They either stay sidelined in search of a perfect strategy (backtesting galore), or they practice trade until they make $1,000,000 demo dollars in hopes of duplicating it live, or they simply refuse to lose and their occasional loss eats them alive.
Perfection in trading is paralyzing, both to you and your account. Growth is prevented, confidence suffers, and you feed the very traits you should strive to shun.
I’ve said before that in trading, you succeed by not failing…failing to create or stick with your plan. But that doesn’t mean you can’t have failed trades – quite the contrary.
Expect losses! As negative as that might sound, it will mentally prepare you to accept them gracefully and move on to the next trade (which might be a far bigger winner).
The best traders are imperfect – by choice. They grow from mistakes, not successes. Lose small and face the music when your current approach isn’t working. That shows true confidence.
By definition, imperfection brings opportunities for growth – both in your account (lose small and win bigger) and in your abilities as a trader (learn new methods). But you’ll miss out if you’re not willing to fail.